The Marketing Machine - Annoying your Friends, Family and Other Members of Your Social Network
Social networking sites such as Facebook can be great tools for keeping in touch with members of your sphere of influence. Keeping your friends and family informed of your professional interests is an appropriate use of social networking sites. However, there is a fine line between sharing your professional insights and experiences on social networking sites and using social networking sites as an advertising and marketing machine. For those new to social networking sites, it is easy to take the wrong approach to social networking by blasting your listing information repeatedly to your connections. 
Use SeeMyListings.com Widget to Place Your Listings on Your Facebook Profile
For Facebook users, there is now a simple solution. Use the listing widget provided by the National Association of Realtors and Realtor.com to place your listings on your Facebook profile. Here are the steps:
Step 1 - Go to www.SeeMyListings.com.
Step 2 - Click on "Add My Listings.
Step 3 - Log on to your Facebook account.
Step 4 - Enter your MLS provider and user name.
Step 5 - Click on "Add to Profile" or "Update Listings."
In a few simple steps, you are able to automate the addition of your listings to your Facebook profile. Given the number of Realtors who I am connected to on Facebook who aren't using this feature, I thought I would post this this short how-to post to get them motivated. Five easy steps to get your listings on Facebook without annoying your friends, family and even colleagues.
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Ryan,
Thank you very much for the advice. I am a newbie to everything besides AR, and this is important to me.
Jon - I have a colleague with whom I am connected on Facebook. The status updates are non-stop "Check out this listing..." posts. Although I personally don't mind these posts, I can see how they could get annoying to non-real estate professionals. I have been using this widget for about 3 months. It allows me to share my insights in the status updates. If someone is interested, they can click on my profile to see all of my listings.
thank you for the advice. Currently Im using CEnterStage for Real Estate facebook widget. I can post my sold listings too!
-Nelson
Nelson - Thanks for the addition... I'll have to take a look.
Nelson - I can see why you use the CenterStage widget. However, there are two drawbacks. First, it is a paid service. Second, it requires manual entry of listing info. In my book, the choice is pretty clear. The NAR widget is free and uses the MLS feed.
I like your idea, thanks!!
thanks for the great tip... I am gong to see if this works with my business page... that would be wonderful!
Thank you for this one. I've been trying to find a balanced way to show what I'm doing without being a pest, this looks great.
So, I guess you are saying: Too much of a good thing may be a bad thing.
Wow, if it is as easy as your post made it seem to be, then I will most definately do it.
What a great idea...to expose your listings but not overwhelm your friends who you are NOT trying to market to.
Hve to give this a thought. I have a tem d Raltos and I would like their listings too. I wonder if I could do something similar with Vflyer? I do like you idea though. It is less n your face but still shows people what you are and benefits clients.
Thanks that is good to know. I just hid another agent with postlet yesterday. I'm an agent and all those listing ads annoy me. So, I can only imagine how the rest of facebook friends feel about them. Is there an "unhide" button if the other real estate agents discover (told) the correct method?
Great Tip Ryan, Thanks...It is a fine line indeed to maintain the social integrity of the social networks while taking advantage of the business opportunities they present.
Ryan - WOW!! Thanks! I just got it up (SUPER QUICK) to added it to my facebook page!! Gee, wonder if you can get it on my business page???? Hmmm, let me know if you there is a way to get it on my Facebook business page.
The Facebook terms of service say that we are not supposed to use our personal profiles for business purposes - will this work with a business page?
Ryan, just followed all of your steps and I'm up and Running !!!!! My question is : From this point forward will it now automatically load all of my future listings OR is there something I must do manually ????
Ryan~ I couldn't find Kentucky on there. Is every state able to do this?
Patricia - This free tool from NAR is a good way to get your listings exposure without annoying your connections.
Debra - To the best of my knowledge, it is a profile only widget.
Dan - I have been that spammer and just think the widget is a better approach. In all honesty, I still announce most of my listing with a blog post and status update. But, the widget keeps the listings in front of the pack.
Jim - I love the social networks because they generate leads for me. However, I have heards some feedback when I heavily push my listings. Conversation starters and offers of assistance seem to be a better path to generate leads than rolling out the ad machine.
Missy - It is as easy as it sounds. The only downside is I have a number of joint listings and seems only to draw listings where you are listed as a primary.
Joe - It has the look and feel of the vFlyer widget. However, I like it because it automates the process and I don't have to manually enter the listing info.
Gregory - I don't mind the eblasts and listing ads. I have only opted out or called an agent to take me off of their list when they don't exercise common sense. For example, I received 10 e-mails about wholesale properties in areas that I don't sell over a 2 week period. I even replied to his e-mail indicating that I would keep an eye out for him in my neck of the woods (with no reply to my e-mail). If it was 1 or 2 per month or at least targeted to my area or specialty, I may not have opted out.
John - It is all about balance. There has to be some conversation starter to get the interaction going. I get more leads from informational or market research posts than I get from posting listing info to my blog, groups, status updates, etc.
Christine - Sent an e-mail to Max Pigman at Realtor.com asking the same question.
Lisa - I see hundreds of Facebook profiles that include personal and business information so I can't see it as a TOS violation. It seems less intrusive than post listing info to your status update.
Michael - It should automatically update your listings. If you see a glitch where a listing is not appearing, you can manually refresh it by essentially repeating the steps again.
Vickie - It is my understanding that all local MLS that currently feed to Realtor.com are included in the list and should be able to feed listings to the Facebook widget.
Ryan - thanks, going to check this out today, I need to start taking advantage of Facebook and this might help.
Ryan - this is great... Thanks for the tip...
Ryan, good stuff! Thanks for the information. It drives me crazy when agents in our area flood Facebook with dribble every day like, "someone PLEASE buy this house" Yuk!
That's a great tool Ryan. Thanks for letting us know.
Steve
Thanks for letting us know about this tool. I'll pass it along to my realtor partners that use facebook.
Thank you for the tip! I did it!
That's a good idea. Never heard of that before but I have been worrying about some of the real estate agents I follow getting kicked to the curb by Facebook for spamming.
Thank you so much for posting this. This was very helpful and needed so much. Once again, much thanks.
Great tip. I did it already and it was very quick and easy.
Very cool!! Thanks for posting!! Looks nice and clean as well!! All the best!!
Thanks for the tip, Ryan. I never liked promoting my listings/business on Facebook. This looks like a good way to find that balance between work and personal life. I will look into it!
Hi Ryan -- Many thanks, I just did it. You seem to be more in the know re: fb than anyone I know. What's a good resource(s) for a fb newbie like me to learn the ropes?
Thanks for the info. There's nothing more annoying than a business constantly hitting you with advertising and the like.
Does anyone know how I can put a become a fan box on my business page on facebook at Realty Exeutives Results? Become a fan.
Thanks again
This is a great app I love it! I will still bug update some info on my facebook but this keeps it up there constatly! Grea tip!!!@!!
Great post and great idea. I have had to hide countless agents that I have befriended due to every post being something about how great they are. maybe they should just post their listings.
Ryan,
Your posts are always so relavent, I always enjoy reading (I just subscribed to them). I could not agree more that most agents are taking the role as spammer on social networking. It is important that your sphere be reminded that you would like to work for them, but I think that is vastly different from blasting advertisements to them. Friendships should not be taken lightly, and I don't think it is intelligent to take advantage of the relationship you have with people, just to blast ads.
Thanks again,
Matt
Thank you so much for this valuable info! I don't post listings on my FB page because I don't want to overload my "friends". I do post on my Fan page, though. The widget will be perfect on my regular profile!
Thanks Ryan, I am going to try it right now. I've wanted to know how to reference my listings.
Ryan,
Thanks for the tip. I see some of my partner agents on Facebook and not all are using it to show their listings, but this tool may help them greatly. I appreciate the post!
Got it on my FB page. Anyone know of a way to get commercial listings on there as well?
Mike - I hope it helps.
Robert - Glad it helps.
Bob - I get the same dribble. I don't mind it - except when it is idiotic posts like you described.
Steve - Glad it helps. I am a bit surprised that NAR and Realtor.com haven't publicized this little widget more.
Integrity - Passing on info makes friends... good tool at no cost.
Mary - It was as easy as I described, right?
Maureen - It is all about tone, volume and the nature of the audience. You don't scream "buy this house" at cocktail parties. Why do it on social networking sites...
Malisa - You are welcome. Glad it helps.
Scott - It took me about 2 minutes to set up... ease of use is a plus.
Stephen - Nice widget with no manual entry... Make something easy to use and I'll use it. Save me time at no cost - I'll even blog about it.
Will - I do promote my business on Facebook. However, it is a mix of personal and professional to try to balance it all out.
Chris - We are developing some Facebook materials. I'll let you know when they are done.
Dan - No doubt about - all business and no personal info shared is pretty good recipe for an unsuccessful social networking campaign.
Laura - I have the same approach. I will still do photo albums, video, and occasional announcements.
Tim - Those types of posts are annoying - as our "I just wrote a sale contract" posts.
Matt - It is a balancing act. Glad to have you as a subscriber.
Tammy - I liked it so I thought I would share it.
Liz - Pretty simple tool... shows 3 lisitings with link to other listings on Realtor.com.
Kevin - Helping agents makes for good long term referral relationships.
Steve - I didn't realize it wasn't pulling the commercial listings. In the first few comments at the top, there is another application described. However, it is a fee based service and requires manual entry of the listing.
This is very cool!!! I am going to run right out and get this handy little widget, so I can stop annoying my friends and family!!! SWEET!!! Thanks!
Jeani - Glad it helps... Only downside is that link directs to Realtor.com as opposed to own website... but I still like it.
Ryan,
This is great information to pass along. Congratulations on the feature for explaining it so well. :)
Steve
Thank you so much. I will watch your blog for more helpful tips.
Thanks for the great tip! Much appreciated!
Sadly, this does not work for Canadian Realtors
Thanks, I did not know how to update my listings on Facebook
Steve - It is a nice tool. I owe you a call soon.
Laura - Thanks for reading and I hope the posts help.
James - Hope it helps.
Scott - I didn't know that... good to know.
Jane - No updates necessary... great widget...
Great tip... Thanks a billion any time we can automate showing our listing it a must do. Only took a few seconds and there it is on my profile... Cool...
Thanks again...
Marisa - Max Pigman is the guy to contact. It may be an imperfect solution - but at least it gives some exposure to listings.
Richard/Janet - I absolutely agree... automation and no-cost were keys.
Wow, that was easy! Thanks for the tip, Ryan!
Hey...thanks for the toip today. Going to do it right now!
Patricia/Seacoast NH
Hey...thanks for the toip today. Going to do it right now!
Patricia/Seacoast NH
Ryan,
Thank you! That is an awesome feature!
Yours is a terrific suggestion that I'm going to use. Everyday I'm thankful for having become involved in AR. I learn so much, like your tip, that it makes my involvement with AR so worthwhile. Thanks again.
Very nice! I'm going to my FB now to try it. Looks like from the other agents it's easy to do, that's always a plus!
Ryan,
Now that is a seriously helpful tip!
Thank you!! (And all of our "friends" thank you, too... :-)
Marty - Easy to use ... you bet.
Patricia - Glad it helped.
Mark - Anything that gives exposure to our listings without annoying others is a good thing.
Tom - I learn more from AR than the few tips I give back.
Melanie - Easy to use and I would add automated and free.
Tim - Isn't that the truth? Our friends get tired of seeing our listings. The close ones tolerate it... but even they get tired of it eventually.
Ryan, so true. I know that my friends don't want to be constantly bombarded with my marketing.
Vanna - Some friends are subtle - others not so - with their comments. I know I made adjustments because I was one of those people bombarding others with advertorials.
Thanks for the tip. It was so easy
Ryan, Thanks for the step by step instructions. I am going to try it right now with my listings.
Pam - Glad it helped.
Sybil - Pretty easy to do.
Ryan, thanks for the information. It was really simple and fast! I had bypassed that on realtor.com before and now wish I had taken the time to read it. That's what's so great about ActiveRain; all the tips from other Realtors.
Donna - AR is definitely a great resource.
What an excellent suggestion!! This took me all of about a minute and it's done! Thank you SO much for this blog entry!! I am going to pass this on to others as well.
Thanks!!!
Ryan - I haven't seen this tool before, it's very cool and something I will definitely do with listings.
Very cool Ryan - I am going to try this out. Has FB shut anyone down for using this (to your knowledge?)
thanks for the info did not know there was a widget for that
Charlotte - Glad to help.
Michelle - It is worth taking a look.
Emily - I haven't heard of any problems with Facebook. It seems that it is less invasive than spamming others.
Valley Hills Realty - It was under my radar too until July.
Thanks for the info! So nice when something works so easily!
Thanks for the tip, I will check it out.
Thanks Ryan for the info. 5 steps - sounds like something even I can handle and so much better than spamming others with your listings.
Barbara - If I review it, I have tested it. I have been using it since July or August. The only drawback that I can see is that it doesn't include listings where you are the co-agent.
Christa - Glad to help.
Leah - Saw your LinkedIn comment. Glad you stopped bye here.
Interesting post. Relevant? I don't know. Deserved to be Featured? Unlikely. But interesting none the less.
Thank you so much Ryan! I uploaded it as soon as I read your post and had to come back and say Thanks!
Aaron - It seems that 70 or so agents didn't know the feature existed and have now tried it or are planning to try it so I'm guessing it was relevant to them. Feature worthy? Seen better. Seen worse.
Tori - I'm glad that it was a helpful tip for you.
Excellent post Ryan...
I've had to cut off the news feed to more then one overzealous Facebook connection that was flooding my home feed with too many "salesy" announcements.
The Listing Feed is much more appropriate since it is not such an "invasion".
Thanks for Sharing...
Awesome Ryan, I can see this helping many of our members promoting their listings on FB. This is really the best and most subtle way to do it effectively. Thanks for posting this for members on Both networks. :-)
Hi Ryan. If only more agents on my FB would use this :-) ~Lana
Don't know if anyone else said this, but I use my outside blog... just post the link and I can choose my pic. The front elevation is always one of the thumbnails to pick from. Thanks for the tip. Good luck out there.
Thanks a ton for the tip. I can't wait to go over to facebook and try it out.
Ryan,
Thanks for the info. I will definitely check this out. I too am concerned about bugging my facebook friends with listings but we have had some good response so I hate to give it up.
Paul - I have been guilty of that offense and once got a nice lashing for it.
Lana - It took awhile for me to figure out the do's and don'ts of social networking.
Matthew - Photo albums, post-its, links, etc. are all alternates. I like this one because it is updated automatically.
Amy - Glad it helps.
Robert - Same story - on one hand my repetitive posts do generate leads; at the same time, they occasionally irritate someone. It is a balancing act for me.
Very nice Ryan. Early on, I did annoy my friends I think. Now I have a business page as well, and post listings and marketing info there. I will try this!
Okay--that was so easy Ryan! It took 3 minutes. Wow. THanks for the info.
Thanks for your sharing! It is a great tool!
Ryan, I did this and for some reason it puts a weird word instead of my name where it says "Homes for sale by". Do you by chance have any idea how to edit my name? Thank you!
Thanks Ryan! I think there are many people who sign up with social sites for social reasons and have really started to get annoyed with people posting business info over and over. It sure can take the fun out of these social sites. Can't wait to try out see my listings for my profile!
Erica - I think we all annoyed friends at first until we figured out the balance.
Cary - I definitely like it.
Carol - I don't know. I would check your facebook info. If that isn't the problem, I would then check your MLS info. After that, I haven't got a clue.
Erica - I think we all annoyed friends at first until we figured out the balance.
Cary - I definitely like it.
Carol - I don't know. I would check your facebook info. If that isn't the problem, I would then check your MLS info. After that, I haven't got a clue.
Ryan - Thanks for the great tip. I can't wait to implement this solution tomorrow!
Christianne - I hope it helps. I like the widget.
I put this widget on either my Profile or on the Business Page. I would love it on both but could not get it to work. Did anyone else get the Realtor.com widget placed on both places in Facebook?
Hi Ryan - Thanks for the heads up on this. It's nice to see NAR recognize that so many agents are on Facebook, and to provide a tool that helps them promote their listings.
Cheryl - I could only place it on my profile.
John - I think it is important to have NAR develop value for its members. I hope more assistance and tools are in the pipeline.
Ryan: I have a few listings coming up ... this is very timely. It seems to me these should go on the Business page ... given that Facebook does not like business on personal pages. Maybe I have that confused ... in any case I will give it a go! Thanks again!
Wow! Now that is a useful Blog! It only took a couple of seconds to set up also! FYI to anyone trying to install....you must use your REALTOR.com access not your MLS access. Great Blog, thanks.
Good tip. This link is open in another tab for me to go play with in a few minutes...
Kathleen - Don't have an answer about putting listings on personal pages. I have routinely done it for over 2 years without a problem. The widget doesn't work on business pages.
Damon - My MLS and Realtor access codes are the same. Sorry about that...
Lane - I hope it helps... I haven't visited your blog in awhile. Plan to get a dose of Lane posts later in the week.
This is a really good tip Ryan. I'll have to bookmark this post for some Realtors I work with that don't blog (I dont know why they dont blog...)
Thanks for the information - appreciate the help.
There are many sites that allow you to just place one picture and a link on Facebook with the bulk of the text and pictures at the end of the link. Most people do not get offended by that. However, if you are an agent who is entering 50 listings at one time and your FaceBook entry fills the page, then you are in great risk of being hidden or stricken from the friends list of many people. I try to keep my postings of listings to one or two a week and usually do it from my private blog so it occupies minimal space on FaceBook. Those that want to see more can click and go to my other blog. There are free sites that also do this.
And why are agents putting their competition on FaceBook anyway. Do you really want to advertise your competition's listings or expertise?? Why not let them put their listings on your AR blog post? Makes about as much sense. No agents on my FaceBook, at least not local ones. I work to promote my listings and do not want 20 other agents' homes popping up against my 5 I put on. If you want to send people to other agents' sites feel free. For me, I keep them on mine.
However, I repeat once more. If you think that Twitter and FaceBook are going to make the majority of agents a lot richer, I think that is a false hope. Other sites specifically aimed at the real estate market and its customers will get you more prospects.
Ryan,
This is an important tip so that we can market our listings and not annoy people at the same time.
Thanks for the tip. I will book mark this and come back to check it out.
John - I hope the tip helps.
Gerald - Let me know how it works out.
John - We have a fundamental disagreement regarding whether or not it advisable to have local agents as friends on Facebook. My outlook is apparently a bit different than your outlook. I view the local agents on Facebook as trusted friends and colleagues - not competitors. More importantly, I typically have 50-75 active listings and view these local agents as sources of buyers for my listings so I want to expose them and their network to my listings. I often share tips, war stories, etc. via status updates. If another agent reads a post like this one via Facebook, it may improve the competition. However, it also reinforces the relationship and generates future referrals. Yes, I both give and receive local referrals. As to the benefits of social networking sites, we would again have a fundamental disagreement. I won't pretend that social networks will ever replace hardwork. However, Twitter, YouTube, Facebook, LinkedIn, and AR blogs have each generated leads, customers and closed sales for me this year.
Christine - I am adept at annoying people without bombarding them with listing info.
Roland - Thanks for reading... I hope it helps.
Christine - I am adept at annoying people without bombarding them with listing info.
Roland - Thanks for reading... I hope it helps.
That took me 30 seconds.... Way to go Ryan... your my Facebook Hero!
Jon,
That is one great idea...thanks!
Dan - Yes, it was pretty easy... nice application courtesy of NAR/Realtor.com.
Lori - Glad it helps.
I added that to my Facebook account last week but wonder if there's a way to show more listings or to priortize the ones that show up on the front page.
Thanks for the tip! I just added it. Very easy!
Hi Ryan, Thanks for posting this. I will give it a try.
Kevin/Monica - There are some limitations. You can't prioritize listings and it doesn't pull commercial listings. There is some discussions on the Facebook fan page that discuss this and other issues.
Don - I hope it helps.
Tim - Good to hear from my colleagues in St. Louis. I hope it helps.
I'm not sure I missed this but I did. Thanks so much for posting this on the AR LinkedIn group. I'm bookmarking this for my weekend homework.
THanks for sharing. I will do this today on my facebook page.
Loreena - I am glad I posted it to multiple groups on LinkedIn. However, it seems to have started a controversy among self-proclaimed social media purists and alarmist who, from their posts, see placing this widget on your Facebook profile page as the social media equivalent of the black plague.
Nancy - I am glad it helps.
Thanks for this information -- will check it out .
The Benjamins - good luch with the widget.
Great tip....Thanks
I will certainly make use of this.
Ryan, thanks for the tip. I'm going to share this with my agents. I really appreciate your response to everyone who's commented too. I was able to learn quite a bit from you in a short time. Thank you!
Awesome link, i am anoyed by the clutter on facebook and hide or (unfriend) people that abuse it.
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Marc - I hope it helps.
Malcolm - Don't know how effective it really is... but every little thing helps.
Anthony - Often the comments are as instructive as the post. A good discussion always improves ideas.
Andrew - I rarely un-friend people. However, the most annoying posts are the gaming posts - just pure junk.
This is neat. I didn't even know it existed. I'm still very new and don't have any listings currently, but this will be great for when I do!
That is a very good way to get your business out to all you family and friends with out overwhelming them with my business. I'm going to do it as soon as I send this.